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Weekend Update

One thing I've started to realize after a series of months of working every other weekend, is that time off is very valuable. There are so many things that I want to get accomplished in a given day or series of days, and I have just become used to failing at completing all of these things...some things can just wait, you know? Preferably not until the last minute, but realistically, that's pretty much how I roll. Anyway, this past weekend was my weekend off, and I was so happy to be able to do a few special things.

First of all, can you believe that two years ago, this child:

was this child?

It seems so crazy to me, it feels like it was just yesterday that I got to meet him for the first time! I remember my visit to the hospital and being so in awe of the whole process. I couldn't believe that my friend had created, carried, and birthed this beautiful baby boy! I can not think of a bigger accomplishment in life.

Sarah asked me if I wanted to hold him, and I remember being afraid. What if something happened while I was holding him...or I dropped him! Randy didn't give me an option, he put him in my arms and said, "you aren't going to hurt him!" I knew I loved him from the minute I laid eyes on him, but holding him sealed the deal.

We sat and talked while I held him and Sarah told me all about all of the awful things that go along with birthing and postpartum cares. Ish...that is all I have to say about that. To us ladies who do not have children, these changes to our bodies seem horrible. I don't want to have to change my diaper the same time I change my baby's! But to the women who have been through the process, it is something you deal with, and they know it is well worth it.

Fast forward two years...I was so happy to be a part of Lincoln's 2nd Birthday. He is such a funny kid. It amazes me every time I see him, how much of a personality someone his age can have!

Lincoln and Dad trying to blow out the candles:
Happy Birthday Lincoln!


Later Saturday night, I was able to spend some time with the neighbors. Because our husbands were supposed to be in the fields, we had planned a female outing! Turns out that the abundance of moisture inhibited their field time, but we went anyway. We decided we were going to go out to eat in Rochester and then go to the local watering hole for a few drinks.

We ended up going out to eat at Chester's in Rochester and had a fabulous time! It is so nice going out to eat with people who don't sit and whine about prices, or figure out how many items they could order on the dollar menu for every item on the menu. No offense Adam, but we both know dining out is not really your 'thing' unless, of course, you can drive thru.

Alli and Sara checking out the menu:

Melinda and I gettin' cozy:

I know it's not Thanksgiving yet, but this weekend made me realize how thankful I am to have such wonderful friends, both old and new.

I am thankful to have met them.
I am thankful to have formed such meaningful bonds with them.
I am thankful to spread our relationships from one generation, down to the next.
I am thankful to have their support.
Without them, I would not be who I am today, and let me tell you, I am one happy gal.

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